Two communications within the past week had
me thinking how important semantics can be:
I
belong to an online group that discusses functional Karate training. Members
will share ideas and show videos. Often, the same handful of people will strongly
comment how the idea or technique is terrible… it’ll never work… etc. The site
moderator challenged these few people to show a better way, not just criticize
what was presented. One commented that criticism can be helpful. That’s when I
gave my two cents worth - “Splitting hairs: ‘critique’ can be helpful;
‘criticism’ usually is not.”
CRITIQUE is a detailed analysis of something,
showing insight pro and con.
CRITICISM is expression of disapproval for
someone or something based on perceived faults or mistakes.
It
often comes down to semantics. It’s not only how you say something, it’s how
the other person perceives what you say.
A
student candidly expressed frustration to me. He felt that I constantly
corrected everything he did. Here’s
where semantics comes into play. ‘Correction’ is necessary, but can be
demoralizing. I assured him that most of what he does is very good, and that a
few moves can be improved. ‘Correction’ can have negative connotation, while
‘improvement’ sounds more positive. He seemed to feel a little better that he’s being shown how to improve his techniques
instead of being browbeaten with a ton of corrections.
In the
‘old days’, Sensei gave you corrections, push-ups, or worse, struck you to show how your
technique was ineffective. Your
reaction, feelings, or response could only be, ‘Hai Sensei’. No, I’m not saying
today’s kids are too sensitive, softer than we were, or anything like that. I’m
recognizing that we’re in the 21st century, it’s a different world,
and our teaching methods must reflect these modern times. Long ago ‘some
antics’ went on in the dojo, today ‘semantics’ can help make the same point.
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